TIPS ON HOW NOT TO WASTE A LADIES TIME
In the world of Relationship, when it comes to wasting of other people’s time in directionless, aimless and destinationless relationships, guys are more guilty.
You date a girl for 4,5,7,10 years, and then out of the blues, you break up with her.
X years of her life, years she will never get back, years of turning down suitors because of you, gone like smoke, knowing fully well ladies age faster than guys.
THIS IS WICKEDNESS
While there are guys who intentionally waste a ladies time, some end up doing so unintentionally (Christian brothers mostly) and it is to these set of guys with good hearts but ignorant that I write this post.
Tips on how not to waste a Ladies Time
✔️ Do not be in a hurry to ask for Relationship.
Start with Friendship.
During friendship, where there is no commitment whatsoever, where you can change your mind without any body feeling cheated, find out basic things like her genotype, her Family background, her life’s aspirations, character etc
~Don’t date someone so you can study them.
Rather Study them to know if you can date them. ~
This way if you don’t like what you see, you can easily walk away without having taken even one week of her life.
✔️ Check and be sure you can and will marry her FIRST before you ask Her for a Relationship. (very important)… By check I mean pray and hear from God first before you approach her.
NEVER date someone YOU ARE SURE from the get go you can’t marry, or NOT SURE you can marry. Relationship is not a gamble, is not bet9ja.
Start as friends (stop fearing “friend zoning”, your God ordained wife can’t and won’t friend zone you, except God has slept off on his throne), Observe, analyze your emotions, Pray, Wait, go to mountain, but till you are sure don’t ask her out.
Many ladies have been in a Relationship, 5 years and counting, brother is still waiting to “hear from God”,
Whereas the lady is 32, and she’s turning suitors down everyday, and brother hasn’t “heard from God” oh, then tomorrow he will now hear from God and break up with her because God didn’t approve, and now goan marry a 22 year old girl. What is dat one?
Brothers, Hear First.
Don’t start relationships before you now start waiting to “hear from God”
My DEAR SISTERS
Apply the above points,
Don’t just date any Tom, Dick and Harry on the street,
Friendship first, study his character, does he look serious, pray, and be sure, is not after 5 years somebody will just use you to do yeye, make it difficult for any brother to waste your time.
PS: Sex before Marriage is a Sin.
Fornication must be avoided at all costs.