Secret of a Woman
At one time, a newly married young man was shouting at his 20yrs old wife and his father called him aside and said to him, we only shout at people our shout or threats can frightened. But not to your wife.
The way you’re shouting, you’re giving away ur power to your wife. Your threat make her stronger. Most men believe that when a woman is threatened, she get subdued, but women are not change with fear.
A woman may stay quiet wen a man is threatening and shouting at her but she is not sitting down inside her.she is evaluating the man’s weakness and how to subdued him rather. Cast your mind back to those days men use to beat wives flippantly at slightest provocations, today most of those men are older and they suffered consequences. Those women their husband were beating yrs back are the ones enjoying the marriage with their children today, the mothers have their children’s sympathy, the men are at receiving end. Let it become clear to men that the way into a woman heart is not to try to threaten and subdue her. God spoke to men and said, “Husbands” love your wife; Do u need an elaborate explanation of this scripture? Love make women weak. When u truly love a woman and show it, she will submit to u without qualms. But wen a woman has sensed that she is just like your toy, you just wan to use her or u are domineering and controlling, the spirit of rebellion takes over her. She might not physically stand on your way but she is plotting coup against u and one day, u will sit and watch her and her children force u to follow theirs rules or die quicker. Almost all the great and fierce kings u know died before their wives. They live all through their live threatening their fellow men and wives. They were able to kill most of their strong men but all the women the threatened stay alive. Women knows how to survive against men. The ” lion’ in men does not scare women or get them to submit to u, it is love that conquers a woman not force or threat. Take note