WHAT “I LOVE YOU” REALLY MEANS
1) I CHOOSE YOU.
It’s a choice you are making,
There are alternatives, better ones in fact,
more beautiful women than me, more curvy ones, more spiritual even, but you came for me,
More handsome/wealthy suitors, but you accepted me,
You choose me.
You are forfeiting your right to go for others when you say you love me,
Think about that before you tell me YOU love ME and once you do, please Honor your Choice.
If you won’t be faithful to me then please leave me alone.
2) I WANT YOU
You didn’t just chose me, you did so because you see a need for me in your life, a need that is not selfish, not because of my money or my body, otherwise it’s not Love. .
You are saying you want me because you see in me a partner, friend and lover, not just a means to an end.
That You actually want me in your life.
So when you say you love me, please give me an actual place in your life to stay.
Don’t make me fight or struggle
Make me feel welcomed, valued and accepted.
3) I WILL SACRIFICE FOR YOU.
Saying you love me is the easy part,
Time will come that you’ll have to prove it.
Being with me will bring with it certain, challenges, after all, like you I’m not perfect,
you’ll have to make sacrifices along the line just as I will make for you too,
Don’t give up on me too easily,
I’ll offend you, sometimes,
I’ll act like a baby, I’ll get angry, but I’m worth it.
Please stay away from me if you don’t plan to make any sacrifices for us to be happy together.
4) I UNDERSTAND YOUR VALUE
If you say you love me, it means you have seen my importance.
It means you appreciate my value,
It means you’ll treat me with Respect
If means you won’t treat me like a piece of trash
If I’m of no importance to you, or if you plan to treat me like a servant, stay away, don’t tell me you love me.
If I’m of no value to you whatsoever, if you know you’ll hurt me, break my heart, Please don’t tell me you love me.
I love you may just be a sentence with 3 words, but in reality, it’s more than that.
I LOVE YOU is more than just WORDS,
I LOVE YOU is EVERYTHING
Be careful how you use those words.