Note that you can avoid committing adultery. It is within your capabilities to do it, if you really mean to.
Being Careless is one of the major causes of affair in marriage and not the devil in the real sense of it as many people always claimed anytime they fall into error. So follow the 22 simple rules you will never fall into adultery.
1: Never make anyone of the opposite s** your best friend with whom you shares any intimate discussions.
2: Never be with anyone of the opposite s** as at the time your spouse must never know you are there.
3: Never talk evil about your spouse in the presence of anyone, they will notice you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you fake care and give you what you lack with your Spouse and destroy you in the end.
4: Be proud to use and showcase your wedding ring outside, let them know you are married and proud to be a Married Man.
5: Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife/ husband that you visited.
6: Avoid keeping any secrets from your spouse, AFFAIR thrive in secrecy.
7: Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite s**, there should be someone of your s** you can talk to, don’t dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth instead build it with your mouth.
8: Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from opposite s**. They will definitely ask for s** in return they are not Father Christmas.
9: Avoid thinking that anyone is better than your husband or wife you don’t know what their spouses are enduring at home, what you are seeing outside is just a show biz don’t be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because of its distance from you.
10: Divert all your s**ual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy according to the Bible.
11: Always remember that whatever other woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it as well and they are not different from each other, it is only faces that are different it is the same package.
12: deal with any s**ual thoughts that’s not directed towards your spouse, you need to kill it before it kills you. S**ual error don’t begin in the bedroom, it begins in the heart.
13: if you’re finding it difficult to deal with it, find someone of a mature christian you can confide in and let the person pray with you, counsel you. Don’t die in silence.
14: Before traveling to a long distance have s** with your spouse and put your mind to it that you’ll not have s** until you come back, that decision may safe your life and destiny.
15: Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and imagine what’s there, it is so stupid, childish and also dirty to do that, that is what is called lust, what’s there is not different from what your spouse has, please don’t be stupid sir.
16: Walk in the company with good and Godly men/women if you keep company with the adulterer you will become adulterous.
17: Discuss your s**ual desire and want with your spouse and let it be fulfilled at home, don’t hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.
18: fill your heart with the word of God at all times, this will not give lust a chance in your mind.
19: Memorise and at all times remember Proverbs 6:32-33. “But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away”.
20: Always remember the cost of adultery, don’t just look at the pleasure, think of the pain, loss of integrity, you’ll hurt your wife/husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.
21: Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills that’s in s** is just 8 seconds more or less, it can’t be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trading eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?
BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILLBE IN THE END BE GLAD YOU DID.
22: And Lastly Pray regularly for your Spouse and your marriage. It is well.
God bless your marriage (Home).
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