Relationship is a platform to evaluate the validity of your compatibility and suitablity with someone. It’s not a “try-your-luck” game, and should not be regarded as one.
There’s no relationship that cannot be fixed, if there’s a Willingness and Humility to do so. However, there are some problems in a relationship that could serve as Red flags to guide you from erroneous marriage. I’ll be listing and deliberating on them briefly:
Relationship problems that cannot be fixed
- Improper communication: Where you both can’t relate and end up clashing unnecessarily. This isn’t about having a misunderstanding, it involves not connecting with the antenna of the other person at all, not agreeing and not relating, finding it hard to be your true self and express how you feel. Communication is the foundation of a relationship, and when it’s not there, it’s Dangerous
- Inadequate Commitment Level: I call this the “safe level”. Where one party plays safe and forfeits his/her commitment to the other. It seems from little issues like calling or texting to a bigger one. Whoever isn’t willing to commit cannot conquer. A wise man said: “the heart that understands also gets tired”. Don’t commit to a person that won’t commit to you.
- Partial Sacrifice: Relationship is about sacrifice. When it is partially done, it can be regarded as selfishness and hurt your partner. What made Cain’s sacrifice unacceptable is the partial selection he did (just citing). Never render acceptable sacrifice to someone who gives you junk, it doesn’t work that way.
- Misplaced Priorities: Priority governs responsibilities and when not placed in the right order can hurt the neglected party. Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.
- Pride: Pride is a silent killer with a loud voice. It destroys everything around it and even it’s possessor. It’s not a booster but a killer; it prevents the ability to admit mistakes and apologise…. T.B.C
Written By: Joy Joseph
Amen!!! Thanks a lot sir. More annoiting in Jesus mighty name.