As youths, when the time comes, it is expected you pray before entering any relationship. The relationship must be built and the foundation of the gospel and not just a worldly relationship. Here are seven principles that will guide your godly relationship
1) Avoid Over/Self Confidence.
Never forget that it is blood that flows through you and not olive oil. Know that you have a limit beyond which you will fall. Know your limit. Since you know that ordinary hug can make you forget your salvation experience, please avoid hugging and don’t say that nothing will happen.
2) Know that your partner has a limit beyond which they Will fall.
Especially for ladies, stop dressing seductively to visit your fiancé. He’s a human being too, even if he is the fellowship president or youth pastor. it is your duty to help him to get to heaven. When he comes to visit you, don’t just seductively thinking he will not do anything. Brothers should also stop playing rough play with sisters. They should not touch at anyhow. It is very important
3) Limit Physical contact
It is very obvious that your love language is physical touch, but wait till you get married. Unnecessary Hugs are not necessary expecially when it is just an excuse to cuddle her and fell her warmth should be avoided. You won’t die if you don’t kiss during courtship, so you have to exercise self discipline and restraint. You can enjoy all possibilities after your wedding.
4) Avoid Circumstances that can lead to unnecessary stories.
Late night visits; staying in one corner hugging each other; Flirtatious Chats filled with sexual innuendo could lead to things that you won’t be proud of. So it is expected that you stop those habits to avoid unnecessary stories
5) Keep like Minded Friends
Keep friends who believe in abstinence before marriage, not friends who are chronic fornicators. Keep friends who will encourage you to keep up the fight, not those that will mock you for practicing abstinence.
6) Incorporate Spiritual exercises into your Relationship Routine.
Fast and Pray together as a couple; study the Bible Together; grow spiritually together and not just romantically. “Walk in the spirit and ye shall not fulfill the lusts of the flesh”
7) Have a Mentor for your Relationship.
Ensure you have summer more experienced to guide you in your relationship. Such a person must have passed through courtship, and so you could be guided and taught in the right step to enjoy your relationship. It is very important
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