7 Top Reasons why a Lot of Beautiful Ladies are still Single
Have you seen a beautiful lady in her late thirties or even forties still unmarried and you wonder why?
She’s pretty, educated, well-mannered and you had even approached her at one time before getting married yourself but she rebuffed your advances?
As a lady, you know how beautiful and awesome you are but you can’t help but wonder if everything is okay with you, how come you are still single?
A lot of ladies pretend to be who they are not and when this is exposed, they return back to their single-hood.
The reality is only a handful truly fit the mold of being the woman a man truly needs and desires. There are several things that can be pointed out as to why they are not ready and why they continuously find themselves single.
So here are 7 top reasons why a lot of beautiful ladies are still single:
You don’t want to just ‘settle’ for any man
You are not looking for someone perfect on paper; you are looking for someone who will be perfect for you. But you don’t want to get married just because all your friends are married or just because society tells you it’s time to settle down in marriage. You are the type that says, until you finally meet the right guy, you don’t have a problem with being single.
Shout out to the ladies that understand that if he isn’t the right guy for you, then forcing a relationship is pointless. Continue to be patient, but make sure that the reason you haven’t accepted any guy is not because of earthly possessions like his job, car, income bracket, and things of that nature. Those things make finding him harder, and personally I think you should focus on finding a man you connect with and can spend time building your lives together.
You’re not approachable
As a girl that wants to get married, you need to learn to smile and be friendly. Guys need some green-light before approaching a lady, so when they glance over and you don’t smile back, they take it as a signal that you don’t want to be approached. Don’t be too rigid, learn to be friendly and approachable and in no time, your Mr. Right will show up.
You are not meeting new guys
Most ladies’ routines are so rigid in their lifestyle and their social circles have stayed the same for years! They go to work, church, home, and maybe one or two places and that’s it. It’s no surprise you haven’t found someone all this while!
You know you can’t keep doing the same thing over and over again and expect a different result. Have a diverse pool of friends and hang out with different groups. You’ll probably meet new people that way and also network. Follow up on business contacts. Tap into all your associations not just because you want a romantic relationship but also because you want richer friendships and a richer life.
You’re not being realistic
I guess sometimes your expectations maybe unrealistic. Nobody is perfect and so are you! A lot of women are looking for ready-made, already established men when they should be looking for men with potential. A lot of women especially after a certain age don’t want to be with ‘potential’ guy but someone with an already made life. The truth is that most men that were not anything in life, after marriage become successful and largely due to the kind of woman they married! So, ladies, don’t be afraid of potential guys anymore.
You have a bad attitude
You may not like to hear this but is very real for some women. You have a stuck up attitude and you still wonder why you struggle with finding the right man. Some ladies will try to cover it up by saying, I’m a ‘diva’ or too ‘classy’ to be with certain men or they are just speaking their mind but in reality you just have a bad attitude.
Being a negative person will not help you find love. Most of the men may still go after you for sex, but if you learn to fix that attitude then you will start to attract the right kind of man in your life.
Some people might say that women like that are married or in relationships. That is because most of them were not completely showing that side in the beginning but being deceptive by hiding it and an unfortunate man will have to live with that horrible baggage in marriage.
You keep engaging yourself with the ‘wrong guy’
How do you expect to ever find the ‘right guy’ when you allow yourself to continuously be with the ‘wrong guy’? You know he is not the one for you yet you continue to entertain this man and his nonsense. He is not even giving you his full attention or commitment, yet you are giving him all the benefits of a real relationship. You want a relationship, but you let this wrong guy continue to take from you without giving you fully what you desire in return. So don’t be surprised when you find yourself still single and more emotionally damaged than you were before.
You are waiting on God to bring your husband
A lot of women say they are just going to trust God to bring them a man to marry. That is great and a step in the right direction but not doing anything to facilitate the process is foolishness. They wait on God to deliver a man as if they are waiting on a shipment from DHL. You still have to recognize what it is you are or not doing correctly. If you choose to trust God to bring you a man, then find out what God needs you to do to get that man. If you are not the woman you need to be then you may find yourself waiting, and waiting, and waiting. Not because GOD can’t do His part, but because you haven’t truly tapped into doing your part.
I am bless truly it is very helpful may GOD increase you spiritually