Late marriage is one of the most common problems among today’s youth all over the world. It has spread over the world, causing anxiety among parents, pastors, relatives, church members, and marriage counselors. So many pastors and counselors are already involved in matchmaking to help with this problem. The issue ought to be addressed because God is interested in every aspect of our lives. It is not God’s will that we suffer unnecessary delays. God wants us to break out and be free
There are many reasons why some ladies have delay in marriage. It is always a very disturbing issus for christian sisters and here are eight factors that could cause delay in marriage for them
Christian Sisters: 8 Factors That Could Cause Delays For Sisters
The last thing on a Boy’s Mind is Marriage. Boys don’t think of marriage, they want to make money first. They enter into relationship just for fun and sex, that’s why if the lady should get pregnant, they ask her to abort it, or they’ll deny her, because they aren’t ready for Marriage. Stop dating boys because they will keep scaring away serious and well-meaning suitors as they’ll be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wants to marry you.
2. ENGAGEMENT RING
This is that spirit that makes you keep raising your finger to show the world that one young man engaged you and when the serious suitors that are ready to settle down see the ring, they’ll pass over you because the ring tells them you have been taken.
And time is going and uncle isn’t saying anything again. The ring have started to rust on your finger in protest.
Many engagement rings are actually handcuffs, some are not better than key holders.
3. HARD TO GET
This spirit tells you not to accept a marriage proposal in a hurry, to do try and play tough so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate.
It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to pray, don’t pick his calls, ignore his WhatsApp messages, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother.
This spirit will not leave you until you hear the brother is getting married to another sister, then your eyes will open and you will start saying “can’t he even wait for me?”
Wait for you? Because you are Jesus Christ?
Dear sister,, If you love the brother and you perceive he is God’s will for you, accept the proposal.
4. PROUD SPIRIT
That spirit that tells you to always talk to brothers anyhow because you are beautiful, educated, and anointed.
That spirit that tells you that every brother that greets you is not your class, so you keep ignoring and looking down on them. That spirit that doesn’t allow you to greet brothers except those that ride exotic cars.
Dear sister, calm down and be humble because you cannot marry yourself
5. DENOMINATIONAL/TRIBAL SPIRIT
I am a Catholic and must marry a Catholic. I attend Deeper Life and i must marry one who’s also attend Deeper Life, so our marriage will be deep.
I am a Redeemer and must marry a Redeemer, any other Brother isn’t Redeemed, even if God is leading you to him.
This spirit has kept many bound, they entered menopause and are about to join the Women’s fellowship because of their age. Dear sister, understand that every believer is from one tribe called Christ. If God is leading you to another denomination, kindly obey Him, stop delaying yourself by yourself.
6. BAD CHARACTER
The character of some ladies is sometimes shocking. They will open their mouth to insult someone and they will even cry for the person. They quarrel and fight in public, no shame, no self respect and no dignity.
Their pride, their arrogance, and their attitudes is making all the brothers to flee from them. This spirit has kept many ladies single because by the time any brother gets close to her because of her beauty, her character will chase him away. Dear sister, this year, work on your character, your date will be fixed this year in Jesus Name.
7. POOR DRESS SENSE
That spirit that tells you not to dress well because you are going to heaven, and that you are special Heavenly candidate, is the spirit responsible for your marital delay. You dress like an old woman and brothers will be greeting you “Good afternoon Ma.”, “Yes Ma.”, “Thank you Ma”. This spirit tells you to use tarpaulin to sew your dress, wear green skirt, yellow blouse and lemon head tie. You are a lady but dress like a man. Dear Sister, no Man wants to marry his fellow man so it is advisable you dress well, don’t under dress and don’t over dress. Dress modestly, smell good because it’s not a sin. Bible said don’t dress indecently, it never said don’t dress well.
8. SPIRITUAL PROBLEM.
This is for real and it is very important that we encourage everyone to be prayerful. Prayer isn’t only for Pastors and we have to be spiritual due to the thing that are happening. There are people whose marriages have been hijacked in spirit realms and only prayers and God can break such yokes.
There are people whose wedding gown has been stolen in the spirit realm and it’s only God that can help them recover it. There are people who are operating under evil family pattern and curses and it’s only God that can set them free.
There are ladies that have been married with children in the spirit realm, it’s only God that can deliver them.
I pray for you, you will not fall into the traps of your enemies in Jesus’ name.
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