Even if you hear God’s voice, Your relationship can still breakup – Emmanuella Mike Bamiloye
Christians are usually of the opinion that once they’ve heard the will of God concerning a relationship, it means they must marry that person even if there are red flags and warning signs that the relationship is not working.
This is why Wife of Mount Zion Film Productions, writer, producer and Actor, Emmanuela has taken to her social media platforms to educate christian couples to understand that it is better to break up that relationship than have a bad marriage.
She explained how she once thought she would be in a relationship only once and get married to the same person but things didn’t work out because things didn’t work out.
She then gave reasons the relationship might still break up saying, God might have spoken at the beginning of the relationship but might not be saying the same thing now. She admonished couples not to hide under the disguise of “God said he is the one” especially when the person in question is not on the same page with on vital issues.
She said “The place of a spouse is a position, an office that is to be filled with ‘the best person for the job’ not a person you keep patching things with because ‘you heard God’. God that led you into the relationship can lead you out of it”
What’s your take on this issue, share your thoughts in the comments section below.
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My question is if God truly told you about the person being the one in the first place, why should it change again? God is not the author of confusion, what he reveals to one, he reveals to other. I want to believe there is nothing like someone being the perfect will of God for you cuz that perfect will might choose not to be the one. Relationship should be by choice, and should be deliberate and international without any manipulation. May God grant us understanding
Thanks for this information ma. All thanks to God for this wisdom and your decision to build others with this.
‘God that led you into the relationship can lead you out’
It can actually be a God given relationship but being sensitive to Vital aspects when there are signs of wrong actions and the likes.
This can be related to the part of the Bible that says”Children obey your parents in the lord”
Obeying our parents in the lord help us to understand that God actually gave us to them as children but wisdom as to be applied when we are led to certain act, behaviors that are not of the lord.
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Wisdom has to be applied to situations showing ‘red flag’.