HOW TO HELP BUILD THE SELF-ESTEEM OF YOUR WIFE
When out on a date with your wife, has there ever been a time when you couldn’t help but gaze at a lovely woman walking by? Have you ever ignored her, talked over her head, or made her feel like she didn’t have a say in the matter? Without realizing it, you can be pulling her down and weakening her confidence.
Being a good husband and partner includes pulling up your wife. If you start with these little steps, you might be surprised by how much you can do to show your wife you care.
1. Take note of the little details
Take note of the little modifications she makes to her look. Compliment her or simply inquire about it. Encourage her attempts to improve her self-esteem. Don’t make her feel bad about needing some alone alone. Recognize all she does for your family by observing when she needs time to herself. Don’t shrug it off and pretend you didn’t notice when she’s angry.
Love may be discovered in the smallest of aspects.
Be proud of her and don’t be afraid to tell everyone!
Your wife wants to know that she is loved and that you are proud to be her spouse.
Tell your family and friends about your successes during a party, for example. Be her biggest fan and encourage her on even when she fails—when that’s she really needs it!
Take her hand in yours while you go around the mall. Simply kissing her good morning and showering her with kind words at random may genuinely make her feel valued.
2. Don’t let other ladies distract you.
It’s normal to look at attractive ladies; it’s human nature. You don’t have to only gaze at your wife to demonstrate that you just have eyes for her. But it’s more about committing to stop looking for attractive ladies in person or online. This might be a major blow to your wife’s self-esteem and make her feel insufficient.
3. Request her assistance.
When making decisions, seek her advice and viewpoint. If you’re having problems, don’t keep them to yourself. Don’t allow your ego get in the way of reminding yourself that she is your equal—your life partner—and that part of building her up is reminding her of this as well. Often, in order to protect your wife from grief, you take on all of life’s challenges on your own. This may not only be challenging for you, but it may also cause pressure in your marriage.
4. Make an attempt to please her.
Being attentive and connecting with your wife might even entail asking her directly how you can delight her. The Good Men Project recommends making a list of ways to make your wife feel good about herself during the week. It might be as basic as making her hectic day simpler or assisting her in winding down after a long, exhausting day.
We hope this helps you increase your loving wife’s confidence! We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below!