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How To Deal With Sexual Harassment?


What is sexual harassment?

 Sexual harassment includes any unwanted sexual behavior​—including touching or even making comments of a sexual nature. But sometimes the line can be blurred between teasing, flirting, and sexually harassing.

 Do you know the difference between them? Take our  sexual harassment quiz and find out!

 Sadly, sexual harassment doesn’t always stop when you graduate from school. However, if you develop the confidence and skills you need to deal with sexual harassment now, you’ll be prepared to deal with it when you enter the workforce. And you might even stop a harasser from hurting others!

Olivia

“You really have to stand up for yourself. People usually don’t back off unless you give them a clear message. Just stand up and say, ‘No!’ If that doesn’t work, tell someone!”

Tanisha

“Don’t laugh at jokes with sexual innuendo or get involved in sexually charged conversations. If you do, or if you hang around people who enjoy a lot of attention from the opposite sex, others will assume that you want that attention too.”

 What if I’m being sexually harassed?

 Sexual harassment is more likely to stop if you know what it is and how to react to it! Consider three situations and how you might deal with each one.

 SITUATION:

“At work, some guys who were much older than I am kept telling me that I was beautiful and that they wished they were 30 years younger. One of them even walked up behind me and sniffed my hair!”​—Tabitha, 20.

 Tabitha could think: ‘If I just ignore it and tough it out, maybe he will stop.’

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 Why that probably won’t help: Experts say that when victims ignore sexual harassment, it often continues and even escalates.

 Try this instead: Speak up and calmly but clearly tell your harasser that you won’t tolerate his speech or behavior. “If anyone touches me inappropriately,” says 22-year-old Taryn, “I turn around and tell him not to touch me ever again. That usually catches the guy off guard.” If your harasser persists, be firm and don’t give up. When it comes to maintaining high moral standards, the Bible’s advice is: “Stand firm, mature and confident.”​The New Testament in Contemporary Language.

 What if the harasser threatens to harm you? In that case, don’t confront him. Escape the situation as quickly as possible, and seek the help of a trusted adult.

 SITUATION:

“When I was in the sixth grade, two girls grabbed me in the hallway. One of them was a lesbian, and she wanted me to go out with her. Although I refused, they continued to harass me every day between classes. Once, they even pushed me up against a wall!”​—Victoria, 18.

 Victoria could have thought: ‘If I tell anyone about this, I will be labeled as weak, and maybe no one will believe me.’

 Why that thinking probably would not have helped: If you hold back from telling someone, the harasser may continue and even go on to harass others.​—Ecclesiastes 8:11.

 Try this instead: Get help. Parents and teachers can give you the support you need to deal with your harasser. But what if the people you tell don’t take your complaint seriously? Try this: Every time you are harassed, write down the details. Include the date, time, and location of each incident, along with what the harasser said. Then give a copy of it to your parent or teacher. Many people treat a written complaint more seriously than a verbal one.

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 SITUATION:

“I was really afraid of this one boy who was on the rugby team. He was almost two meters (6.5 ft) tall, and he weighed about 135 kilograms (300 lb)! He got it into his head that he was going to ‘have me.’ He pestered me almost every day​—for a whole year. One day, we were the only people in the classroom, and he started closing in on me. I jumped up and ran out the door.”​—Julieta, 18.

 Julieta could think: ‘That’s just the way boys are.’

 Why that probably won’t help: Your harasser is unlikely to change his behavior if everyone thinks it’s acceptable.

 Try this instead: Resist the temptation to laugh it off or to respond with a smile. Rather, make sure that your reaction​—including your facial expression​—makes it clear to your harasser what you will and will not tolerate.

 What would I do?

 TRUE STORY 1:

“I don’t like being rude to people at all. So even when guys kept harassing me, I would tell them to stop​—but I wasn’t very firm, and I often smiled as I spoke to them. They thought I was flirting.”—Tabitha.

  •  If you were Tabitha, how would you have dealt with those harassers? Why?
  •  What may cause a harasser to think that you are flirting with him or her?

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