Pastor Paul Enenche, the founder and senior pastor of Dunamis International Gospel Centre spoke to his members on ‘Secrets Of Financial Blessing Overflow.’
He revealed that if God has blessed you, place your wife on allowance. He said that if you are receiving one hundred thousand a month and your wife is receiving one million a month, which means she has more money than you; you still do your best to make available what you can. He said that he can assure you that if you are to give your wife ten thousand nairas out of that one hundred thousand, it is more valuable to her than her one million naira salary.
Why? They’d say, “My husband gave me, my husband loves me, my husband is not earning so much but the little he has, he’s caring” and every understanding wife will spend and spend themselves. They won’t complain about household money or anything; they will spend and overspend themselves. “Let’s take it easy and make it easy for God to bless us. Let’s make it easy for the scripture to work in our lives,” he said.
According to him, he can never ask his wife, “so what’s your own contribution to food money, what’s your own contribution to children’s school fees?” because she has already tried. He said that when she went to the labour room, he didn’t go. When she carried that weight for nine months, he didn’t carry it. “I think God should have made men to carry pregnancy once. If men carry pregnancy once, the world will finish; they won’t go again,” he said.
Finally, he said that if we are able to put ourselves in the shoes of others, we will be able to do well. He said that it may look funny, Please, but it is a major secret of being blessed. “Let your wife have goodwill for you. Let your children rise up and say, “this man is a good man.” Let your father in the Lord say, you are a good son, a good daughter. Let the needy around you bless you, and then, no matter what the devil tries to do against you, it can never succeed,” he said.