MUST HE GO DOWN ON HIS KNEES TO PROPOSE?

MUST HE GO DOWN ON HIS KNEES TO PROPOSE

Read the title again, must he? A CAPITAL NO! but should he? That’s his choice.

Let me start by saying that not all men propose to a lady, you can be dating a lady then when both of you decide to take things to the next level, you can proceed with meeting your parents. Without the ‘will you marry me proposal’ been involved. This was how it was done before, it worked and it’s still working.

But in recent times and years, the proposal ring idea has been adopted, good concept, beautiful and it has worked so well too, it’s helped the couple build and keep beautiful memories, every lady loves a proposal. As long as she is interested in the man proposing.

Back to my question, it’s not a must a man goes down on his knees to propose to a lady and I maintain my stance on this, going down on his knees to propose doesn’t equate or validate his love for you, this is a culture just like every other culture that has been adopted over years.

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The idea of a man kneeling to propose is a servant leader demonstration, which means that in other for you to submit to his leadership he is first serving, this is why he shows this by going on his knees, there are several ways to demonstrate the servant leader in relationships, which includes washing of feet but I won’t go into all of that that today.

Ladies, do you know He can kneel to propose to you and in marriage, he can ask you to kneel to serve punishment 😅😅😅 funny but very true.

It’s very easy to be deceived by these things, he can kneel to propose and that would be the last time you would ever see him go down on his knees for you, not even in prayers, not to help even help you buckle your shoe or sandal when you are pregnant, etc.

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A man that can kneel to propose but can’t kneel in the presence of God is that one a proposal, what should be your major concern?

At this point I must touch quickly on ‘the public proposal’, in the course of proposing publicly, some men have received disgrace and disappointment cause bae refused the proposal publicly 😭😭
Don’t be too quick to jump on every culture.

Before you publicly propose to bae, be sure you have had many discussions in private so you don’t see yourself on Instablog Naija forcing your supposed bae to say Yes.

When I saw that video trending, I almost cried for the lady, please always ask why before you adopt any culture and make it your standard.

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I was telling my friend the other day @ if my Kingman goes down on his knees to propose that I am also going down on my knees to accept the proposal and if he stands, I am standing as well, no big deal.

Ladies, allow him to express his feelings to you in the best way known to him. Be flexible and spontaneous.

Christian brothers and sisters, don’t be too naive else the devil will rub you off many lovely moments.

May God help us all in Jesus’ name. I come in peace ooooh

©Busayo David

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