Marriage is an essential part of any human being, no matter how successful someone might become, without a successful marriage, such a person will still be duped a failure. Marriage has processes and stages. No one just picked up a woman one day and say am marrying you. It started from friendship, to courtship, then marriage.
In the course of courtship, there will be a need for individual partner,to meet with their would be In-Laws, for some questioning and proper knowing. Popular speaker, and relationship coach, Reverend Funke Felix-Adejumo has detailed what a guy and a lady must know before visiting each other’s parents.
In her worlds, she first address the man, saying, when you go there as a man to meet your parents in love to be, dress properly, carry gifts along, if there are kids there, give them money. She further advised when a man is served food at the in-law’s house, one shouldn’t finish it, one must carry himself with respect and dignity. She said, when you are questioned, answer intelligently.
She concluded her advice to the man by saying, a man should make sure he buys a gift for the Father-inlaw and must prostate flat for him. She said a man should be cultured and mannered.
To the lady, she advised that she dressed properly well, and must put on shoes she’s comfortable in, not the one that will make her to be dangling.
She further detailed her advice to the lady, saying, when you get there, kneel down, don’t stand up until you are told to do so, don’t stare at anybody’s face, instead be looking down. She emphasized and comportment, quietness and humility. Below are the full details of her words in pictures.
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