REASONS YOU SHOULD KEEP HER (Wife) BY YOUR SIDE
There are plenty of virtuous women in this world we live in. Are they rare, scarce or hard to find?
Rare? No, Virtuous women are not rare. They are in abundance.
Hard to find? Maybe. Why? They are not found in gutters. They are people of prestige. Like FBI, their case is classified. They are well positioned and as much as you can find many of them, that isn’t a guarantee you’d be able to keep them.
Any man can find a virtuous woman but it takes a man of virtue to value and keep her.
Yes, some irresponsible men (with all due respect now), have come across women of virtues but their irresponsibility and inability to honour value won’t make them ever cherish them talk more keeping them.
Virtuous ladies don’t settle for less. They are not ignorant to stay with ignorant men. They have pride and dignity. They are willing to build vision and with them, you can fly as high as your mind permits you. Underestimating the power a virtuous woman carries is the undoing of many men. Even in relationship, understand the grace your partner carries.
Scripture says: “When the perfect comes, the imperfect disappears”
If you’re still taking for granted that virtuous lady because she is in love with you, hold on for a while. You will watch her leave as a man who values her more and ready to lay down all for her will get her from you.
Time is a revealer, it reveals all you do with it. It places you either as the TAKER or the CARETAKER.
When the taker finally shows up, the caretaker steps aside.
I hope you don’t start saying “she wasn’t God’s will for me, that’s why she left” Bros, she is God’s will for you. You only survived in wheeling away God’s will for you.
That someone is God’s will for you doesn’t mean they will die with you in your ignorance.
God has many sons for His daughters my brother. So, if you are favoured to have one of God’s daughters in love with you, don’t think it’s because of your cuteness, pocket or level of your intelligence. It’s only a product of God’s favour on you and no, nothing will happen to any lady who leaves you because you couldn’t figure out the virtue in her.
That which you have been favoured to have, guard her jealously. Don’t frustrate her till she’s gone. Even when issues come up, seek to resolve it as soon as possible – This makes you a man truly.
You’ll always find women all around. You can’t always find virtuous women all around!
It’s the coin I have, I gave you.
PS: I’ll write shortly to address the other gender also, then, it will be balanced😁
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