Popular Nigerian gospel musician, Sammie Okposo has advised married men to comport themselves when they are around their female fans.
Revealing what he has learned since his sex scandal that caught the attention of millions of fans and Nigerians home and abroad in January 2022, the singer, in an Instagram live interview, shared what he has learned since the incident, saying a married man needs to comport himself always especially when around female fans.
He said: “I have never learned to just take people as just face value because this was a situation of a fan that became a foe, first things first as a married man there is a way you need to comport yourself around the female folks, your fans can be super excited, they can be ready to go to crazy lengths with you but you should be the barometer, you should be the one who measures how far a fan gets with you, especially the female folks, even some of the male folks can have good intentions in the beginning and it turns out sour.
“So I have learned to guard my environment, I have learned to conduct myself moving forward when the fan is overly excited that wants to stay around you when it’s too late you gotta and you gotta make sure that they are people around you as an artist everywhere you travel around the world, don’t allow yourself to be alone so that even if you cannot check yourself somebody can checkmate you that is very important especially when you travel and the fans are super excited like ‘oh can we hang out or can we do this’ some of them you have to tell no to and it is better to hurt their feelings than for them to be another story tomorrow and some of them you can say okay I will find time to do it but never be alone.”
The singer’s marriage almost hit the rock when he confessed to cheating on his wife with an American woman, who claims to be carrying his baby.