This is what happens when you marry a man with low self-esteem —Pastor Mildred Okonkwo advises ladies

Marriage is supposed to involve two hearts united in a common goal. A man who is really in love genuinely with a woman is mindless of whichever level she might have attained in life. God has created human beings differently. In the contemporary world, we now have women in top positions, and with advantages that are bigger than those of some men.

Any woman in such a position would be distinguished and placed especially. It could be very difficult for such a person to easily attract a man who would love her beyond her achievements most especially one in which she is higher than in all ramifications.

This is where the issue of self-esteem and insecurity comes in. Some women tend to fall cheaply to the snares of some men who are not established nor are they secured in their self-esteem. Men who are low esteemed and most especially those who do not have a well established personal vision and a big heart to accommodate the success of a woman finds it very difficult to establish their esteem to appreciate and accept the woman for who they are. Such men struggle with low esteem which would later degenerate to envy and arrogance, against the woman.

In the light of this, Pastor Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo, a relationship expert and pastor has said in her teachings directed to women on their supposed choice of marriage partner that, the choice of who they intend to get married to would either make or mar their lives. They should be on the lookout for men who are capable of accommodating their success. Those that are down to heart to understand that success and achievements come from God. The appropriate time to protect your marriage is right before you get married. Marriage cannot be protected or saved from collapse after you are already married. It could be possible but, such a feat is left for God. But, right before you get married at all, ensure that the man you would eventually get married to is one whose vision can accommodate your success. It is God that gives hence, a man who is genuinely committed to a woman must be the one that has a heart big enough to accommodate the success of his wife.

The cleric continues in her exhortation most significantly to the single ladies to be very careful of the men they intend to get married to. Insecure men and those that are not we established in their vision of life would definitely find it very difficult to accommodate the fact that, their wife is either more successful than them or is also successful in her chosen area of life.