Rev. Christie Bature, a marriage counselor and the founder of 180 Degrees Rehabilitation Centre, said in a video posted on a Facebook account that she left her husband’s house to live in a rented apartment.
In a talk, Rev. Christie narrated that she had to leave her husband’s house for a rented apartment because she was not seeing convincing repentance in her husband after forgiving him of infidelity.
She said prior to the time she left the house, she had received a call from her husband weeping that a 19-year-old girl accused him of being her father, but the worst came when the lady and her mother came to her house and she saw the striking resemblance between the lady and her husband.
The cleric narrates that her home was all unstable because her first born broke down in tears as he was no longer the first son because the lady was even older than he was, while her second child, who was the first daughter, claimed she would no longer be the first daughter anymore. She narrates that she had to swallow her pain and comfort her children.
Rev. Christie claims she had to accept the child because of her home, forgive her husband, and never regretted her action. She said her decision helped her gain respect from her in-laws and experience to help heal other bleeding homes.
She added that it was after her husband repented genuinely and with the intervention of her pastor that she returned home. No one should claim that the method she used must be the standard when such a scenario occurs, but she acted according to the Lord’s instruction.