Words of Encouragement for Your Wife

Affirming Phrases for Your Wife

You should never underestimate the power of the written word. They may build up and inspire, or they can tear down and damage. We can all need a little boost now and again.

The Bible advises, in Ephesians 4:29, to “let no corrupting discourse come out of your lips, but only what is beneficial for building others up according to their needs.”

When a husband offers encouraging words to his wife, it is much appreciated. To have a partner who can provide for you is a great gift. I can see how a guy may forget to say something kind to his wife with all the hustle and bustle of daily life. Keep the compliments coming for the following reasons.

How Come My Wife Requires a Vow Renewal?

In many respects, men and women are different. A man’s need to be revered is different from a woman’s desire to be adored. When it comes to their lives, males can put everything in neat little boxes, whereas women are more like a plate of spaghetti—everything gets mixed up.

Women tend to be quite critical about their appearance. They feel a great deal of pressure to be good family members. Sometimes it’s just too much of a squeeze. A godly lady in the Bible will work hard to care for her husband and kids and keep the family running smoothly. The work involved is not simple.

Changing diapers, cleaning the home, making supper, and reading to the kids are just a few examples of the necessary yet thankless duties that make up the bulk of a woman’s workday. A woman and mother might go about her day without ever hearing a word of thanks or appreciation, yet we don’t need to be praised for all we do. That’s okay, since our ultimate goal should be to utilize our efforts to honor God. A husband’s acknowledgement of his wife’s efforts, though, may go a long way.

The dog is unable to express gratitude for being allowed outside and fed. It takes a lifetime to teach gratitude, but the kids are getting there. A husband’s duty is to always appreciate and praise his wife for her achievements. At the end of a hard day, when she is exhausted and a hot mess, it means the most when he tells her she is lovely.

A well-organized home is a boon to every household. Women are notoriously hard on themselves. They are only aware of the three things they didn’t get done today, and not the twenty that they did complete. It means a lot when a husband acknowledges and compliments his wife on a job well done.

Languages of Love

Understanding your wife’s primary love language can help you express your affection in a meaningful manner. There’s a book out there called “The 5 Love Languages” by Gary Chapman. According to Chapman, people show affection in whatever manner they feel most loved. To express affection, people may use any one of five methods: spending time together; getting presents; doing acts of service; hearing encouraging words; and receiving tokens of appreciation. Both the book and the accompanying exam are fantastic resources for learning how to express gratitude to one’s partner.

The goal is to fill your partner’s “love bucket” by showering them with affection in the ways they feel most appreciated. If you don’t fill their bucket, you’re just wasting your time.

Your wife may express their love best via hearing pleasant things said to them. Take out the garbage as a token of your gratitude if that’s her preferred love language. It would be worth it to go out and get her some flowers or a box of chocolates if she likes receiving presents. Not every quality time investment has to be a weekend getaway; it may be as simple as setting up 15 minutes a day to talk. Touch affirmation for your wife may come in the form of hugs, kisses, a soft contact on the shoulder, or even just an intimate touch.

It is not necessary to lavish praise on your wife after every accomplishment in order to encourage her. It’s about showing her how much you appreciate her hard work and how carefully you’ve considered expressing your gratitude. Learn the most effective ways to show your wife you care so that your efforts have the most impact.

The Changing Seasons

To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the sun. Ecclesiastes 3:1 Each individual and family goes through cycles that mirror Christian’s trip in The Pilgrim’s Progress. There are times when you get many blessings and others when you must pour out everything that you have. There will be easier and harder times of year. Your wife may need more support from you during trying times. Even if it won’t stay forever, kind words spoken at a difficult time may make a huge difference.

It was a major adjustment for us last year to begin homeschooling our children. Whenever I needed reassurance that we were making the correct decisions or that I was performing OK in my role, I would ask my husband for his opinion. At this juncture in my life, I wanted to bolster my confidence and establish myself. Having his support bolstered my confidence to keep on.

A lot of males don’t show their feelings as much as women do. We may lean on our husband’s steadiness and assurance when the world around us shifts. In time, we will establish a new rhythm, just as a ship does after a storm. Keep up the positive thinking till then.

Simple acts of compassion and support, such as a kiss goodnight and encouraging words, may go a long way. Your wife might appreciate a message or card from you. Send her a quick message throughout the day to let her know you’re rooting for her and that you’re thinking about her. Be encouraging by sending her an email with a quote from the Bible. The fact that they are little acts of kindness to your wife may seem inconsequential, yet they will mean a lot to her.

To What Extent Should I Affirm My Wife?

In reality, we are all equally undeserving. All humans are sinful and deserving of eternal punishment. I know it seems harsh, but it’s the truth. You’re lucky to have found such a wonderful woman, and she’s lucky to have you. You two are a perfect match, as if God Himself put you together. It is possible to have a family and bring up children to respect God and fear their Creator.

The act of affirming one’s partner is not a duty, but rather a means of pouring oneself into one’s partner. Men, as the moral authorities of your households, you should serve as role models. You should be looked up to because you are an example to others. Your children will mimic your behavior if they witness you appreciating and praising your wife. If this happens often during their youth, they may seek a partner who will validate and encourage them. As the head of the household, your decisions will have an impact.

With any luck, your wife will pick up on your compliments and return the favor. Having her acknowledge your efforts on behalf of your loved ones and express gratitude for them would be very appreciated. Keep the compliments coming even if she isn’t returning the favor. Perhaps she will understand in time. She will follow your lead if you establish one. Make an effort because it’s the proper thing to do, not because you want praise in return.

Christian service and sacrifice are central to the message of the gospel. Isn’t that a fantastic proposition? Not at all. The guy who would later betray Jesus had his feet cleaned by the Lord. Jesus bathed Judas’ feet despite knowing that Judas would betray Him. To put it simply, that’s the standard we follow. Don’t tell your wife you love her because you think she deserves it. You don’t either. (John 13:3-17)

Christ-Centered Self-Identity

Allow me to take a minute to speak to my Christian sisters. Satan constantly bombards us with self-doubt. Fears that we are not loved or valuable convince us that we are not worthy of happiness. We have an uphill battle against these falsehoods. Allowing these uncertainties to develop will only make you feel worse. Those of us who are trying to fight Satan’s lies appreciate hearing encouraging remarks. To hear from our spouses that they love us and appreciate everything that we do is a comforting affirmation. Don’t rely on your spouse to perform things that are above his skill set, however.

Wives should seek God alone for approval. You have a God who is unchanging, who loves you unconditionally, and who is kind and benevolent above everything. He’s reliable and consistent, and you can count on him at all times. He promises to be with us always. (First Kings 28:20) This promise, first offered to Moses and our ancestors, is now being made to you. There are several accounts in the Bible of God keeping his word. Having faith in Him is a wise decision.

Get the words from the Bible. The compliments our husbands pay us are the cherry on top. Recipe for the cake may be found in the Holy Scriptures. In it, your kind father expresses his advice. Any comforting words of wisdom you may need to hear on a bad day are available for your listening pleasure.

Our shelter and fortress is the Lord. (Psalm 90:1) He is the safe haven we are to seek for. As the Bible says in Psalm 34:8, He gives us peace. (Isa. 51:12) Together, he and I form an impenetrable fortress. (Psalm 144:2).

If we put all our faith on our husband’s assurances, we’re setting ourselves up for disappointment. Just like us, they are imperfect humans who have sinned. We will be in a better position to serve our families and husbands if we look to Christ for our sense of self-worth.

If you want to make a good impression on your wife, try praising her. It’s possible that your wife needs compliments more often than you do. Try to keep in mind how much it means to her.

Make sure to include your wife in your prayers. Keep praying that God would draw her to Himself and teach her His ways. The Bible is the ultimate message of praise from God. Love, joy, and peace—all the fruits of the Spirit—can be nurtured in us by the Holy Spirit and God’s Word.