5 THINGS ABOUT MEN EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW. (PT 1)

PS’: The Men this post addresses are godly Men, good men, kind men, team player Men, Men who love and respect their Wives….. not MEHN. (there’s a difference)

1) THEY LIKE TO FEEL LIKE THEY ARE THE ONE IN CHARGE

A Man may see leadership as a Team work (which it is), most often he’d even allow you call the shots in the home,

But don’t let that fool you as a lady, even if you marry a Man who allows you do anything you like,

Pharaoh gave Joseph Egypt to run as he liked, but he still said one thing “ONLY in the throne will I be greater than thee”
Joseph could run Egypt as he liked, Pharaoh would say nothing, but the day he tried to assume he was the new Pharaoh, he would have orchestrated his own down fall.

A Man may give you the Egypt of your home to be in charge of, there will be no problem, but never take the throne from him.
Even if it’s an imaginary throne. Let him have it. Otherwise……….

No matter how free and unconcerned your husband is about who is in charge at home, even if you are the mover and shaker in your home and your husband is fine with this, never rub it in his face.

Otherwise,
the day you do that, you will see another side of your godly husband you never thought was there.
He will begin to fight you, consciously and unconsciously for his “throne”.

You may marry a good man who isn’t a dictator, but there’s a way you will begin to behave and talk, you’ll hear him say “it’s like you’ve forgotten I am the Head of this House”

He may not have insecurities about allowing you run the home or tell him what to do, but your behavior can make him have them.

Respect your Husband.

Don’t give him orders,
Table your ideas as suggestions. Don’t be the wife that stars a civil war in her home.

Make him feel he’s the Head and he will make you the Head

Ask his opinion on anything you want to do, especially if it’s a major decision, even if you know he will ask you to do what you want.

Still call him “Sir” once once, or as often as your humility will allow you.

Submit to your Husband in Words and Actions and he will Submit Egypt to you to Run.

MARRYWELL