Dear Lady
5 WAYS YOU CAN BETTER HIS LIFE
As a Lady, when you come into the life of a Man that values and treats you with so much love, here are 4 areas of his life you should also help him improve in, be you his faince or wife.
1) FASHION
Men are not very fashionable beings compared to Women, some guys are actually not doing bad, while some need deliverance in this department, irrespective of how he is doing, as a a lady, you should help him Improve
Suggest styles for him to sew.
Suggest color combinations for him
Be his fashion Police
Correct him whe he makes fashion blunders, like color blocking or wearing mismatching outfits and commend him the day he dresses well.
If he is the type that doesn’t buy clothes and accessories, force him to do so. You have that power and influence over your man, use it, you can buy for him too, for instance, if he doesn’t wear sneakers, jeans or fine t-shirts, you could buy some for him and make him wear them and look sweet.
Within few months of coming into his life, people should notice the change/improvement in his wardrobe…
2) SPIRITUAL
As I told one lady few weeks back, your job as a helper is also spiritual, even if you didn’t marry a pastor, that Man you married, strive to contribute to his life spiritually.
If he is too busy pursuing money, or his schedule, look into his schedule and:
Fix fasting for the both of you,
Fix Bible study for the both of you,
Send him Bible verses and voice notes to read and listen to during the day.
You are not the holy spirit, but Iron sharpeneth Iron.
3) SOCIAL
Some Men may be shy, introverted, withdrawn, socially awkward, or ignorant.
Some Men don’t know how to call their parents and check on them, or send Happy new month text messages and build relationships.
You are to become his Public Relations Officer.
Ask him if he has called his mom this week etc
Correct him if he makes or takes anti-social actions. Help him build good social relations with his colleagues, boss in the office, Pastor, neighbors, family members etc.
4) CAREER
This is also key,
His progress is your progress.
Encourage him to pursue courses, second, third degrees, have him tell you his career goals, let him be hungry for promotion and career growth.
Never allow your husband become complacent in his career path.
Encourage him.
Motivate him.
Use your Woman power.
Help him look for better job openings, read about his career and suggest things he can do to rise, be it in the private or government sector..
Every Woman can be with a Man that’s already built, but only few can build with a Man..
Proverbs 14:1 ‘Every wise woman buildeth her house……”
PS: As HIS progress is your progress, so also is YOUR progress his progress, you too, don’t abandon your life, work on your self too and build your own life, and demand he helps you too..
Don’t abandon your life, building his.
We can all be great together.
May our Marriages be great.
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