Pastor Mildred Okonkwo, the wife of Kingsley Okonkwo spoke to the singles in her church. Many singles have ended up in the wrong marriage because of a lack of information and advice. It is Important they sit down and learn from the experienced ones.
She revealed that your choice on who to marry will either make or mar you because building a successful life and a successful marriage starts from who you choose. As a marriage counselor, she said that a lot of time when she’s with married people who are going through a divorce or are going through infidelity recovery, one of the things they tell her is that they saw the signs before they married and they were thinking they would be able to change that partner.
Speaking further, she said that the easiest way to save your marriage is before you marry. You don’t save your marriage before you are already in it, you save it before you enter into it. So if you are going to have a successful marriage or a successful life, the first thing you need to do is to choose well.
“Choose a man whose vision is large enough to accommodate your own,” she advised the singles. She said that you don’t have to be in the same line of work But he must have a heart that can accommodate your own success. According to her, a lot of men are insecure; a lot of men cannot stand their women greater than them or just as great. You must marry a man who has no problem with you being the successful wife of a successful husband.
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