SECURE THE ROOM!

SECURE THE ROOM!

There is a distinct room every man and woman has. It is simply the ROOM OF YOUR HEART. Yeah! that room is very distinct and very important to be tampered with by just anybody who knows not its value.

In a newly built house where rooms are being Let out, the house owner is most careful not to give rooms to those who will tamper with and disfigure it,….and so he carries out a serious screening exercise, interview, also states his standards for his property and ensures a mutual agreement takes place. This to him serves as a protective measure in compliance to his set standards.

Such should be the case of every man and woman hoping to give room to welcoming a life partner, right from the junction of Friendship unto Relationship/Dating unto Courtship unto Marriage.

Generally, you should seek the face of the Lord for a life partner. He’s got the best and right choice for you.

Moreso, if you would have to make a choice or welcome someone into your life for a marital relationship, kindly ensure your room(your heart) is given securely so avoid stories that #batters the heart.

To ensure the security of your room, Carry out these protective measures before anything?

1. Fervently pray for direction: Do this wholeheartedly and in strong faith and you won’t miss your way.
2. Ask to know more and every necessary things about him/her. His/her past; His/her vocational skill, Academic, Health and Job status.
3. Ask to know His association, family & friends.
4. Ask to know his/her family and religious background. Validate his/her spiritual uprightness and stability.
5. Ask to know what he/she understands about Relationship and Marriage.
6. Ask to know his/her readiness for marriage. His/her life goals, vision, etc..
7. Ask to know his/her do’s and don’ts, likes and dislikes…
8. Run a Test of Love, (outside romance and sex).

✓Stay a little/far away and see his/her affection towards you.

✓put up a little and reasonable offence and watch his/her reaction.

✓check communication signal whether strong or weak. This includes; calls, texts, chats, etc…

Ofcourse You know the kind of Love Relationship you desire, so therefore carry out a love test sensibly.

[As regards test of love, I recommend OLUWANIYI ADEROPO HEZEKIAH’s book. It will enlighten you more. You could get in touch with him on facebook with the above name].

However, with all measures observed, do you think it’s a green light for you? Do you feel positive with it?

Though it can’t be ALL perfect because there will surely be things to work upon if you both would accept eachother unconditionally and to work on it.

Brethren, it is necessary we become more careful about giving the room of our heart to people so to avoid threats, jilt and heartbreaks.

There is just one person who will not tamper with nor abandone your room for any reason. This is just the RIGHT PERSON for you.

🌹Be lead, Be safe and remain ever blessed.

©TADESE ADENIYI KOLAWOLE.