Why Do You Want A Woman??

Why Do You Want A Woman??

If it’s for one of these reasons we are going to read here today, you have to change your mind set and orientation. If you need to enjoy your wife for so long and she will still be looking young, you have to prepare your mind before going into marriage about this.

My hubby always want me look so young by him. And after 20 years of marriage with 4 grown up kids and over 46 years of age, people still use to think I’m younger in marriage and in age. The secret is the mind set of my hubby and his orientation about this. He will always say, “I have only one opportunity of a woman, I can’t afford you not to look good by me!!!, If is a car I use anyhow, I can afford to buy another”
Why do you need a woman? What is your mind set about your woman?

A lot of men really don’t love to go into adultery after marriage, but when their wife is no longer matching their social outlook, they look for a lady that can match. Don’t be a fool! You can’t bring out that lady in the public as your wife. It is mostly a secret relationship. Why not prepare to enjoy your wife’s youthfulness as long as you can!

Let’s see:

Wrong Mind Set About Marriage!

*When some people see a man washing his clothes and instead of minding their business jeje, they will say “bro! You need a wife o!” Not even a washing machine!

*And if they see a man cooking it will be “you need to get married so you can stop all these cooking”.

• Even mothers are not left out in this! Train your son now! Don’t make him a liability to his wife! There is no food my son can’t cook, no house chores he can’t do. He is already a blessing to his future wife!

Some mothers will look at their 35 years old lazy son, who cannot wash his own boxers, boil water for tea or even make his own bed, a 35 years old that cannot take his plates to the kitchen after eating and tell him “you need to settle down, get a woman to take care of you”. SERIOUSLY?? It is true! Women take care of men, don’t turn your woman to a slave or a machine, she’s is human like you.

Abraham told Sarah to go and prepare food for the strangers that came to visit them, he also joined in the preparation, he didn’t just sit down waiting for Sarah! Help your woman!

And Abraham hastened into the tent unto Sarah, and said, Make ready quickly three measures of fine meal, knead it, and make cakes upon the hearth.
Genesis:18:6

And Abraham took butter, and milk, and the calf which he had dressed, and set it before them; and he stood by them under the tree, and they did eat.
Genesis:18:8

“Bro! Who are you o, if father Abraham can prepare food for visitor?”

*In different ways, the society subconsciously tell men that they don’t marry women for any reason other than cleaning, cooking and childbearing. I begin to wonder, does the average man need a wife or a glorified maid?
Love your wife like your self! She is your body. What is good for you is good for her. If resting is good for you, it is also good for her. If a car is good for you, it is also good for her. Care about her and for her as she is doing to you

Most ladies look twice or even thrice their age out of stress from house chores and even combined with jobs at some times. You only do good by watching your choicest movies or enjoy the use of your phone to play while she stress, and you claim love? The woman will work, work and work, and you will still expect her to come and perform bed wonder at night? That is why some men can’t enjoy good sexual life! The woman has used all her energy on house chore without good rest!

Bro! Why do you think it is wrong for you to sweep your house?

Why do you think it is wrong to wash your own plates after eating?

Why do you think that it is wrong to wash your own clothes?

Who told you that is it the work of women to bath a child?

Who told you that it is wrong to dress your bed when you wake up or when you want to sleep at night?

What will it cost you to help your partner with chores in the house?

Make It Right Now!
Everything in marriage is hard work of two people who had prepared in their heart to work together in love to make it.
You need a woman, who you would love, cherish, do all things with, assisting one another, helping one another, encouraging one another. Set good standards for a beautiful working marriage with right mind set! If not, you don’t need marriage.

But if you love to get married because you feel you’re becoming too old to do your own chores then you don’t need marriage but a maid.
Just before you marry, make up your mind on these!

Evang Kemi Longe