I0 STEPS TO A PEACEFUL AND JOYFUL MARRIAGE(FOR WOMEN)

I0 STEPS TO A PEACEFUL AND JOYFUL MARRIAGE(FOR WOMEN)

1) Make sure you don’t allow your husband leave home unhappy. Settle every issue before He leaves the house. (When a man leaves home angry most times that day turn out to be a bad day for him)

2) Do your best not to shout on your husband especially in front of your children or people living with you.
(When you are angry, learn not to end his call while he’s still talking on phone and no matter how angry you are, pick his calls… you might be saving him from danger at that moment.)

3) Be quick to say sorry sir to your husband when you offend him and try to always mind your words when you are angry, don’t abuse him and don’t walk away from his presence while he’s still talking.

4) Always be willing to give your body to your husband…After wedding, he owns everything in you. Constantly give him enough sex. Nothing satisfies a man like sex…75 to 80% of problems in marriage today is because of sex. (When it comes to marriege, there is no holy or old man in sex. Don’t allow your marriage to break because you always have reasons to say NO! to him)

5) If you have money on you, some times cook his favorite meal without demanding anything in return… don’t allow your husband to suspect that you cooked with your money because you are expecting something from him. (That’s a bad impression)

6) Pray for your husband always in and outside his presence and occasionally send him messages of encouragement.
(Every husband needs it)

7) Your husband comes first before your children or anyone else. Don’t allow anybody take his place in your life, No matter who ( Remember your children will marry, your visitors will one day go, leaving you and your husband alone…build your relationship stronger.

8 ) Don’t let anyone know not even your Children when you support him with money and don’t allow him feel inferior because you are assisting him. Don’t kill inside.

9) Most times thank your husband and call him pet names for the woman God have used him to make out of you, Because it’s through him you became a wife, mother and daughter in law.

10) Honour your husband in every thing and every where…no matter how poor he might be. Don’t take decision on his behalf or at his back, wives are made to suggest and support and not to decide.

• Remember a wife of a godly poor man is more honourable than a rich widow… Always respect and treat your husband with cake so that He can live long for you.