In a recent post on his official YouTube channel, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo explains 5 T’s that show that your marriage is going down and they are:
1. Talk
According to him, ladies love to talk always and you need to be ready to talk to them at all times. When communication is not mutual in a relationship there will be a problem and couples need to understand this. If you do not talk to each other then you could allow a third party into your relationship. Most marriages go down these days because the talk less.
2. Touch
A woman needs a lot of meaningful touches a day and you can’t be married to her and be touching her only doing sex. One of the reasons why your marriage is going down could be because you do not use to touch her. Men might not like it but women do. If you do not touch your woman more often she might get the touch somewhere else.
3. Trust
When Trust goes down in a marriage, it is dying gradually. You don’t ask someone to trust you but you have to earn it. So couples need to trust one another and they need to develop an environment that suits them.
4. Togetherness
He said that if you are no longer doing things together and your marriage is already ending. Good couples are compatible by chance while great couples are compatible by trust. We need to enjoy each other’s company and try to compliment ourselves. Couples are also expected to travel together and spend quality time together.
5. Time
He said that there’s a certain amount of hours that every couple should spend together in a week. If it is not been spent together then that marriage is already in crisis mode. It means you are spending that time for somebody else or something else. According to him, it sometimes requires sacrifice
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