WHAT IS THE PATTERN FOR YOUR MARRIAGE?
Dear single and waiting,
Cc: Dear Married and frustrated,
Please pay attention to this carefully;
One of the reasons why it seems like you are waiting too long to receive that partner you have been praying for is because you haven’t taken the time to pray concerning the pattern that God wants you to model for your marriage.
One of the reasons also, why you may be experiencing frustration in your marriage is because you haven’t prayerfully asked God for the pattern He wants you to model for your marriage.
What is the pattern for your marriage?
How does God want you to lead your home Sir?
Has God told you how He wants you to be led Ma?
Sometimes when I see single people worry so much about convictions and confirmation before marriage, the first question I always want to ask is; Have you asked God for a revelation of how He wants your home to be built? Or you just want to be satisfied with God telling you if the person you want to marry is the right one or not.
And when God finally speaks, when you finally see that person in your dream or have their name chosen for you by a prophet, do you also wait in the place of prayer to ask God the kind of home compatible with the person He has confirmed for you? He is the right person for what marriage pattern?
We need to start teaching these principles. A compatible spouse will crash in a wrong marriage pattern. If God is calling you to lead a marriage of signs and wonders, then a partner who is lukewarm in the secret place cannot work for you no matter how compatible you are, that marriage will crash Ma.
If God is calling you to model a marriage pattern that is based on openness and transparency for the edification of souls, you cannot get your conviction from a quiet and reserved person no matter how compatible you two are, this is why most marriages are experiencing frustration. You are convinced that you are with the right person, you are convinced you heard God’s voice brooding over your marital choice, yet things don’t seem to be working out in that marriage, check the pattern Sir. Run back to God quickly and ask Him if His plan for your home is for it to be a boat, a canoe, a ship or a plane, stop trying to pattern your home like an ark when God has called you to model your marriage like a storehouse.
I ask again, what is the pattern God has given you for your marriage?
You want your spouse to come now now but you don’t know the pattern he or she is coming to fit.
Today I charge you to go back and ask God for the building plan He has given you for your marriage. Before going to lay a simple foundation that supports a house built on a rock, please know if God is calling you to build on a swamp. The pattern determines the foundation.
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