15 WAYS YOU CAN SHOW A WOMAN LOVE

No matter how we look at it, the fact still remains that, women are emotional beings. They are more emotional than men who are more logical.

Women do things more from their hearts than from their heads. They are more merciful and compassionate than men. They feel things deeply than men.

The fundamental or basic need of every woman, irrespective of status or caliber in life, is love. Love or affection is basic and fundamental to a woman.

In economics, we’re told that food, clothes and shelter are the universal basic needs of mankind, men and women inclusive. That doesn’t mean that we don’t need other things but these(food, shelter and clothes) are our fundamental needs. Likewise, love is the basic need of every woman.

As a man, the number one thing a woman that loves you needs from you is love and affection unless that woman doesn’t love you, then she can be after your money and other things. But a woman that loves you needs your love first before any other thing. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t need other things as well but this is her basic and fundamental need.

This is important because, a woman that doesn’t feel loved by her man, will not feel secured, will not be at peace, and will not thrive. But once a woman feels loved, she will feel secured, at peace and she’ll thrive because you’ve given her the enabling environment.

If love is the basic need of every woman, how then do you show your woman love? I briefly give you 15 ways you can do that…

1. Confess your love for and to her
   Don’t only internalize your love for her but also vocalize it. Tell her how much you love her. She’s not in your mind to know what’s going on there. Always tell her, “Baby, I love you”. “My wife knows that I love her” is not enough. Tell her you her, you won’t die believe me.
2. Speak her love language
   Love language are those things that make one feel loved most. It can be a gift, words, touch, assistance, etc. Learn your woman’s love language and speak it often. We understand and connect with people well when they speak our language.
3. Listen to her
   Most men feel that a woman doesn’t have anything sensible to say. That’s very bad. A woman has a lot to say. Listen to her. Don’t shun her off. Listen to both her nonsense and sensible conversations. It speaks volume.
4. Protect her
   As a man, the basic reason for your muscular and strong body is to protect and provide for your woman not to beat her. Protect her from family members, from friends and danger.
5. Respect her
   Everyone deserves respect, your woman included. Respect her decisions, her body and opinions. Respect her as you will want to be respected.
6. Shower her with gifts as you’re capable of. Don’t kill yourself. Shoes, handbags, clothes, money, iced cream, sharwama, phones, trips, vacations, outings, etc., these are ways to a woman’s heart.
7. Give her attention.
   What you don’t give attention will die. Spend time with your woman. Gist, play, joke and flex together. Don’t just give her money and zoom off, give yourself too.
8. Help her
   Bible says women are help meet but that doesn’t mean that they don’t need help too. Help her with chores, her work or project or whatever she may need your assistance on.
9. Support her
   Is there something she tells you that she wants to do, support her so far it’s legit? Support her dreams and visions too.
10. Praise and appreciate her
    Women put in a lot of work just to look good most of the time it’s for the men in their lives but many men hardly praise nor appreciate their women. Praise her beauty, her hair, clothes, wisdom in handling things, errm, appreciate her up and back too, her body in general, shape, height etc.
11. Satisfy her in the other room
    Warning, this is for the married! Give it to her until she tells you it’s OK. Don’t be a 2 minutes man my friend! Let there be rough play until there’s a heavy down pour from heaven to water your seed.
12. Don’t condemn her, correct her in love.
    Women can be naughty at times, they’re not perfect. Don’t curse nor condemn her. She’s not stupid nor a fool. Correct her in love if she makes a mistake.
13. Don’t compare her with or to other women
    It can pain them. Let her be the only Queen in your kingdom. Even if you want to appreciate another woman’s beauty, don’t end without telling her that she’s more beautiful than than the woman. Comparing her to others affects her self esteem. It raises her jealousy anyhow. Stop it and stop turning your neck to behold another woman’s endowments while yours is with you. Face front, Sir.
14. Invest in her
    Make her your project. Make her a better person than you met her. Invest in her spirituality, personal development, intellect, finances, appearance, etc. Introduce her to people, books, tapes, etc., that will make her a better person.

Let me stop here for lack of time and space. So, men both married and singles, go and show your woman love. Let your woman know and feel that you really love her.

Thank you

RelationshipAdvice

© Okolie Samuel