Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, the founder of David Christian center sent an important message to the singles in the church about how they can attract the right spouse.
He revealed that one single word every single person should know is “value.” You need to add value if you want to attract the right spouse. He said that everyone has his or her preference and the category of person you prefer also has his or her own preference. He said that until your dream matches with one another, you cannot meet. Life is about the purpose and not about sentiment. He said that there is money everywhere and the reason you don’t have money is that you are not giving much value. Those who add value are having enough money that they don’t even know what to do with it. “Add value to yourself and people will want you,” he said.
The second thing you need to do is to add value to your community according to Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo. “This means that wherever you find yourself, be a value giver. You are either the problem or the solution,” he said. Anywhere you are, make sure you are always the solution because everybody recognizes the person solving the problem. In the church, make sure you are active. He said that a lot of the women that married in the Bible were adding value. Rebecca found her husband when she was giving water to a man that is not even eligible. It’s the same thing with Ruth and Naomi. Oprah left but Ruth decided to stay to serve.
Finally, the man of God advised them to add value to themselves and also to their communities. Join department, join charity organizations, look for ways to add value to your community, somebody will see you there and you are likely to meet more like-minded people.
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