Pastor Funke Adejumo spoke to women in the church about the issue of forgiveness. It is quite unfortunate that some women find it difficult to forgive their husbands when he offends them. When you are supposed to forgive and forget, you put those issues in their minds and it keeps hurting you.
She advised that you should learn how to forgive yourself and move on. Many homes are in problems today because the woman cannot forgive the man. They are busy crying and remembering the fact that their husbands committed adultery many years ago. They feel bad and hurt themselves in the process. “Stop calculating the anniversary of your husband’s adultery,” he said.
She said that in her village they use to say that “if you don’t forgive the matter of yesterday, there will be nobody to play with today.” She said that everyone has stories to tell and you need to learn how to forgive. The devil tells you that you aborted 7 times before you married and that is the reason why you don’t have a child, you should tell Him to ‘shut Up’ because God does not use your past to determine your future.
Speaking further, she said that if you are married as a virgin, it is a privilege for you but some people lost their virginity not because they wanted to and that does not make them small or inferior. According to her, you need to stop pulling out your sins from under the blood’s cover. Leave it there, face your front because God is working on you. Don’t give up on anyone yet, because you don’t know where God is taking us to.
Source: Opera News
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