The Founder and Senior Pastor of David Christian Centre (DCC), Lagos, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Shared a controversial caption about relationship on his social media platform early this morning.
The Clergyman who is known as a relationship and marriage expert posted a caption that stirs up alot of Reactions from his Members and followers on Facebook.
The strength of a relationship is measured by how you fight not how you love
Pls he doesn’t mean this physical fighting but struggling to win or making sure the relationship works,like striving hard to get that person you so desire, that is the fighting there,that’s if you really know what you want you will fight it hard till you win the person bcos you may not be the only one admiring or desiring her so you need fight hard to be the winner, that’s it
In my opinion the strength of a relationship is measured by how you fight, settle and stay in the relationship for long term
Fighting would be a lot easier if the other person sees it the same way, else you would lose your mind, your self-esteem, and time fighting with no results.
When u are on it…it different,but when you’re not,it pointless.The important thing is fighting for someone that value you,someone that return the same energy you give.Some that knows you’re too…precious to loose.
In your fights you will be able to realize the debth, length and breath of that love,every hidden secret of the heart comes out in anger,if someone truly loves you or pretends to love will show it’s true colors when there’s a fight.
Some people might not see the “fighting” in your context. So Sir for clarity purpose, please always specify the kind of “fighting”Because the last kind of fight led to😩😩😩😫😫
The fighting here doesn’t necessarily means, you must hit or say abusive words to your partner but you fighting to keep the relationship going through constant communication between you two, praying together, looking at for one another, building each other self esteem etc
Perfectly said!How much you fight for whom u love determines how much you love the person. You can’t claim to love someone and then watch something else steal their attention from u.